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Yet, Louise chooses the path that brings with it love, family and tragedy In this circumstance she believes the positives far out way the negatives. Most of us choose this course - we choose the course of love, family, community. We know as we get older that their are going to be some real hard times mixed in with the joys of life, We don't need to be future readers .

The secret is to not to focus, think about, allow ourselves to dwell and be anxious about what hardtimes that will beset us now or in the future. Focus on possitives, focus on the exciting new stuff to come, focus on doing FUN STUFF.

Anxiety is a terrible thing, so much of our media and educators push all people but mostly our young, who absorb every thing they see and hear, to strive for excellence or you will fall from the tree so dont climb it, learn to swim early and well other wise you will drown, yea and swim between the flags, If you don't get too marks in the HSC year 12 exam finals you will fail, . Let our kids have some fun, teach them the tools but not the interpretation , let them work it out , teach them the principles to climbing a tree , don't tell them they might fall or they will fall, they are not dumb, let them have ago and learn for them selves ( maybe put some cushions under the tree but don't let them see them and don't let them see you do it.