What advice does Ye Ye give to Adeline? (Chapter 20)

In Chapter 20, Third Brother (YeYe) updates Adeline on all the going ons within the family, with all the brothers heading to England for school and Big Sister staying inside of Communist China. Ye Ye speaks of how proud he is of Adeline's achievements and reprimands her when she speaks of her inability to find a way out, saying that she will create her own destiny. This bolsters her spirit, encouraging her to continue succeeding in school.