In Désirées Baby, What are the societal and Gender based issues?

Even though she initially protests Armand's allegations about her mixed background, Desiree eventually complies and accepts Armand's position. She does not think that he will change his mind. In fact, she often looks past his devilish, satanic behavior towards her and her slaves. She looks for the good in Armand, though the same cannot be said of Armand's behavior towards her. When she asks him if she should leave, Armand tells her, "Yes, I want you to go." His tone seems dismissive, apathetic, and resolved. He is firm in his decision; he does not express shame or regret. This is in contrast to Desiree's uncertainty and unwillingness to let go. In fact, at the moment it would seem that Desiree has more of an incentive to leave Armand and to protest his behavior than vice versa. Gender roles typical of the time are embraced and in fact are internalized so greatly that both Desiree and Armand are blind to how to actually resolve the situation and see who is actually at fault.