WHAT ARE 4 THINGS ABOUT THE NARRATOR IN THE EXTRACT IN THE GIRL WITH THE PEARL EARINGS BEGINIGN MY MOTHER DID NOT TELL ME THEY WERE COMING LINES 1-6

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My mother did not tell me they were coming. Afterwards she said she did not want me to appear nervous. I was surprised (1), for I thought she knew me well. (2) Strangers would think I was calm. (3) I did not cry as a baby. (4) Only my mother would note the tightness along my jaw, the widening of my already wide eyes.