3 passages that demonstrate unselfishness of a character

"I was thinking of my father. He must have suffered more than I did." (Chapter 4 pg 56.)

"Whose was that tear? Mine? His?...We had never understood one another so clearly." (Chapter 5, pg. 65)

"How could I forget that concert, given to an audience of dying and dead men!" (Chapter 6, pg. 90) Juliek playing the violin.