what are examples of lou anns insecurities how does mamas "hog saying" tie into lou anns lack of comfidence?

Lou Ann is steeped in the tradition of marital relations lasting forever and the illusion of family bliss. She pines for a father figure (her father died in a tractor accident) and one gets the sense that she gets the husband/father figure thing mixed up. Mama has snippets of "wisdom" from growing up on a hog farm. Her advice often involves woman's best shot at life involving finding a husband.

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