Who says, " if so be a time comes when yeh have to be kilt or do a mean thing, why, Henry, dont think of anything cept whats right, because theres man a woman has to bear up against sech things these time"?

None of the above...... this quote comes from Henry's mother.

"I don’t know what else to tell yeh, Henry, excepting that yeh must never do no shirking, child, on my account. If so be a time comes when yeh have to be kilt or do a mean thing, why, Henry, don’t think of anything ‘cept what’s right, because there’s many a woman has to bear up ‘ginst sech things these times, and the Lord ‘ll take keer of us all."