In Mbanta, Okonkwo is scolded for not understanding the Ibo proverb that "Mother is Supreme." In what ways does Okonkwo ignore or refuse to acknowledge the female virtues in himself and others? How does this one-sidedness create problems for him in life?

Masculinity is one of Okonkwo's obsessions, and he defines masculinity quite narrowly. For him, any kind of tenderness is a sign of weakness and effeminacy. Male power lies in authority and brute force. But throughout the novel, we are shown men with more sophisticated understanding of masculinity. Okonkwo's harshness drives Nwoyeaway from the family and into the arms of the new religion. Okonkwo disrespects the female virtues and traditional Igbo power of certain female characteristics. This eventually gets him exiled from the village.