What is Aunt Alexandra's vision for what is "lady-like"? How does Scout respond to that vision? What does Atticus think about Scout's conformity to gender roles?

Alexandra's expectations for lady-like behavior include dressing in a dress, giving up tom-boyish behavior, and ceasing to play with the boys. Scout should read, learn her family history, dress up, and participate (attend) the ladies' meetings. Atticus does not seem to encourage or discourage gender roles in the family.