It Ends With Us is a powerful and thought-provoking novel that explores the complexities of abusive relationships and the importance of self-love and self-worth. Colleen Hoover portrays Lily Bloom, the protagonist, as a strong and independent woman determined to break the cycle of abuse that has plagued her family for generations.
Throughout the story, Hoover shows how abusers can be charming and loving in public while being manipulative and controlling in private. She also demonstrates the psychological effects of abuse on the victims, particularly how it can lead them to question their self-worth and feel trapped in the cycle of violence.
The novel also touches on forgiveness, highlighting how it can be empowering and detrimental to one's well-being. Lily's struggle to forgive her abusive father and her conflicting feelings towards Ryle, her boyfriend, who also exhibits abusive behavior, add emotional depth to the story.
The novel's ending is particularly poignant and impactful for everyone, especially those dealing with abusive and otherwise unsavory relationships. It provides a powerful and emotional message about the importance of self-love and standing up for oneself, even amid immense emotional turmoil. The book's final chapters demonstrate the strength of character and the courage it takes to break free from abusive relationships as Lily escapes her relationship with Ryle and ultimately finds someone with whom she can be safe and feel loved. She continues co-parenting their children with Ryle but discovers he is unstable or mature enough to be in a romantic relationship. Ultimately, she finds herself and discovers her true self-worth.
