1 When did Didion write the first words after John's death? May 2004 January 2004 December 2004 June 2004 2 What are the first words of the book? The question of self-pity. Life changes in an instant. Life sudden changes. Life changes fast. 3 Where does the phrase "In the midst of life we are in death" come from? One of Didion's own novels Episcopalians Something Quintana says One of John's essays 4 When does John die? January 3, 2004 December 25, 2004 December 30, 2003 September 2, 2003 5 Didion writes that she has been a what her entire life? A dreamer A writer A self-pitier A woman 6 What is Didion's first response when John freezes at the dinner table? She realizes he is having a brain hemorrhage. She thinks it is a joke. She rushes to call to ambulance. She thinks of Quintana. 7 What does Didion think of the story of a mother who would not let an army official into her home to tell her of her son's death? She does not understand the story. She thinks the woman is irrational. She pities the woman. She recognizes the thinking as her own. 8 When does the phrase "a mote in the eye of God" come to Didion? When thinking about how short their lives are When thinking about the fragility of their lives When thinking about Quintana When thinking about the time passing as John is taken to the hospital 9 Who first calls Didion a "cool customer"? The doctor John Her social worker Didion herself 10 Why does Didion find it difficult to give away John's shoes? She doesn't think anyone is worthy of having them. She feels that he will need them to come back. She feels they have sentimental value. She is too unhappy to think about it. 11 What is the time of death on John's death certificate? 9:09pm 6:56pm 11:40pm 10:18pm 12 How would John take notes? On index cards By typing on his own phone In a pocket notebook By telling Didion to record on her phone 13 Where does the phenomenon of "waves" come up? Looking at Quintana Discussion of grief A trip to the beach A meditation on time 14 Why does Didion call the Los Angeles Times after John's death? To publish John's last story To ensure John's obituary is not only in the New York Times To ask for files they have kept about John To talk to a friend there 15 Didion writes, "I needed to be alone so that ___." I would remain a cool customer he could come back the grief could come to me I could process my feelings 16 What is the title of the Freud essay that Didion quotes? The Question of Self-Pity Mourning and Melancholia The Problem of Grief The Vortex Effect 17 Didion recognizes the kind of irrational thoughts she is having. What is the effect of this recognition? She stops thinking them at all. She decides to give herself entirely to her grief. No effect at all. Not much; she continues to think those things. 18 When does Didion think about John's eyes? When she looks at Quintana When she is called about organ donation When she looks at his photograph When she watches his autopsy 19 What was the importance of John's funeral to Didion? She acknowledged his death in a public way. She went through the motions of life. She finally let him go. She said her last goodbye to him. 20 In times of trouble, what does Didion go to? Music Painting Walking Literature 21 What does Didion refer to as "sideswiping"? Sudden deaths such as John's Sudden illnesses such as Quintana's Worrying too much about death Losing herself in memories 22 What does Didion find interesting about an entry on grieving in a book of etiquette? It is very soulful. It contradicts what medical manuals say to do. It is way too simple. It is completely practical. 23 When is Quintana first admitted to the hospital? December 25, 2003 December 18, 2003 December 30, 2003 December 22, 2003 24 Why is Quintana admitted to the hospital? Broken leg Brain hemorrhage Depression Flu 25 During the night of John's death, what part of Didion's home makes her feel that things are normal? The fire The books John is reading The dinner table The food