Answer
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Work Step by Step
1. Find eigenvalues: (A-$\lambda$I)$\vec{V}$=$\vec{0}$ $\begin{bmatrix}
1-\lambda & 2 & 1\\
2 & 4-\lambda & 2 \\
1 & 2 & 1-\lambda
\end{bmatrix}\begin{bmatrix} v_1\\ v_2 \end{bmatrix}=\begin{bmatrix} 0\\ 0 \end{bmatrix}$
$\begin{bmatrix}
1-\lambda & 2 & 1\\
2 & 4-\lambda & 2 \\
1 & 2 & 1-\lambda
\end{bmatrix}=0$
$\lambda^3-6\lambda^2=0$
$\lambda_1=0, \lambda_2=0,\lambda=6$
2. Find eigenvectors: For $\lambda=0$ let $B=A-\lambda_1I$ $B=\begin{bmatrix}
1-\lambda & 2 & 1\\
2 & 4-\lambda & 2 \\
1 & 2 & 1-\lambda \end{bmatrix}=\begin{bmatrix}
1 & 2 & 1\\
2 & 4 & 2\\
1 & 2 & 1 \end{bmatrix}\begin{bmatrix} v_1\\ v_2 \\ v_3 \end{bmatrix}=\begin{bmatrix} 0\\ 0 \\ 0 \end{bmatrix}$
Let $r,s$ be free variables.
$\vec{V}=r(-1,0,1)+s(-2,1,0) \\ E_1=\{(-\frac{1}{\sqrt 2},0,\frac{1}{\sqrt 2});(-\frac{1}{\sqrt 3},\frac{1}{\sqrt 3},-\frac{1}{\sqrt 3})\} \rightarrow dim(E_1)=2$
The eigenvectors span $\{(-\frac{1}{\sqrt 2},0,\frac{1}{\sqrt 2});(-\frac{1}{\sqrt 3},\frac{1}{\sqrt 3},-\frac{1}{\sqrt 3})\} $ in $R$
For $\lambda=6$ let $B=A-\lambda_1I$
$B=\begin{bmatrix}
1-\lambda & 2 & 1\\
2 & 4-\lambda & 2\\
1 & 2 & 1-\lambda \end{bmatrix}=\begin{bmatrix} -5 & 2 & 1 \\
2 & -2 & 2\\
1 & 2 & -5 \end{bmatrix}\begin{bmatrix} v_1\\ v_2 \\ v_3 \end{bmatrix}=\begin{bmatrix} 0\\ 0 \\ 0 \end{bmatrix} $
Let $r$ be a free variable.
$\vec{V}=r(1,2,1) \\ E_2=\{(\frac{1}{\sqrt 6},\frac{2}{\sqrt 6},\frac{1}{\sqrt 6})\}
\rightarrow dim(E_2)=1$
The eigenvectors span $\{(\frac{1}{\sqrt 6},\frac{2}{\sqrt 6},\frac{1}{\sqrt 6})\} $ in $R$
Hence, $S=\frac{1}{\sqrt 2}\begin{bmatrix}
-\frac{1}{\sqrt 2}& -\frac{1}{\sqrt 3} & \frac{1}{\sqrt 6}\\
0 & \frac{1}{\sqrt 3} & \frac{2}{\sqrt 6} \\
\frac{1}{\sqrt 2} & -\frac{1}{\sqrt 3} & \frac{1}{\sqrt 6}
\end{bmatrix}$
then $S^TAS =\begin{bmatrix} 0 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 6 \end{bmatrix} $